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Relationship Boredom And How To Beat It

Almost all of us go through a period where there is a feeling of relationship boredom. These feelings may occur during the different stages of the relationship and they may come and go.

When your relationship is new, you and your partner are enjoying spending time together. You have so many firsts to look forward to such as buying a house, getting married, having a baby and finding new common interests.

Soon the newness wears off and things start to get very routine and tedious. Everything is the same day after day and nothing changes. You start to spend less and less time together. When you have children and start building a career, time together becomes hard to find.

The way new couples run their family is traditionally with the husband going off to work every day and the wife staying home and raising the children. The couple may only see each other for an hour or so a day.

After many years of marriage, you start to notice that your spouse tells you the same joke over and over. You can predict everything your spouse will do before he does it. You know what he wants you to make for dinner and what the two of you will do every single weekend.

How to Fight Relationship Boredom

At some point in most marriages, spouses feel like they can’t take another day of the same old thing over and over gain. Relationship boredom is a big reason people have affairs as they are bored with their marriage and feel the sex is lacking. Newly married couples generally have a lot of sex but as time goes on and couples have more and more responsibilities, this can fall to the wayside.

Sometimes you don’t know you are suffering from relationship boredom until it hits you all at once. A lot of people get divorced because they are bored but generally, people simply want to find a way to renew the passion and excitement in their relationship. This is not as hard as you think. All you need to do is think back to when you were newlyweds. Recall the things you enjoyed doing together and start doing those things again.

Couples need to work on keeping their marriage romantic and interesting. That means figuring out how many activities you need to do together to build a strong connection. You may be thinking that this will require you to work hard and that is true!

You have to take care of yourself and make sure you look and feel good so your spouse looks at you like he did when you first met. You can both work out together, go to the spa, or do many other things. When you do these things, you tell your spouse you are trying to look good for him.

Spice Up Your Marriage

The feeling of boredom in a marriage causes frustration. If your husband comes home after work and watches sports until dinner and then goes to bed, he may be bored. It is not easy to get people out of these routines and get them to do new things. Start with a small step like asking your spouse to go out to eat with you somewhere you have never tried before.

The following are other ways you can spice up your marriage.

1. Find a hobby that you can do by yourself or with others so you are not relying only on your spouse for entertainment.

2. Initiate sexual intimacy on a regular basis.

3. Do something that reminds you of when you first got together with your spouse.

4. Try something new like visiting a local park or going to theater.

5. Set up a romantic surprise for your spouse like a candlelight dinner or make him a special dinner for no reason.

6. Set aside time to have a conversation with your spouse daily.

If you want to stop relationship boredom you need to be active. If your marriage is boring, you need to figure out how to find the spark you used to share. You cannot stay connected emotionally and physically to your spouse if you don’t work at it daily.

You need to make sure your spouse knows every day that you love him and that you value his thoughts and feelings.

Try doing new activities with your partner if you are fighting relationship boredom. When you take the time to set up these new activities, you are telling your partner that you value the relationship and are willing to work on it to keep it strong.

There will always be times when you are bored but it won’t last if you are active. You and your partner won’t suffer from relationship boredom when you both are working on keeping your marriage strong and exciting.

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